Abstinence: Q & A

Q: What Is It?
A: Abstinence is not having sex. A person who decides to practice abstinence has decided not to have sex.

Q: How Does It Work?
A: If two people don't have sex, then sperm can't fertilize an egg and there's no possibility of a pregnancy. Some forms of birth control depend on barriers that prevent the sperm from reaching the egg (such as condoms or diaphragms). Others interfere with the menstrual cycle (as birth control pills do). With abstinence, no barriers or pills are necessary because the person is not having sex.

Q: Do you have to be a virgin to practice abstinence?
A: Sometimes people who have been having sex decide not to continue having sex. Even if a person has been having sex, he or she can still choose abstinence to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

Q: How Well Does It Work?
A: Abstinence is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Although many birth control methods can have high rates of success if used properly, they can fail occasionally. Practicing abstinence ensures that a girl will not become pregnant because there is no opportunity for sperm to fertilize an egg.

Q: What is one reason to practice abstinence?
A: Abstinence protects people against STDs. Some STDs spread through oral-genital sex, anal sex, or even intimate skin-to-skin contact without actual penetration (genital warts and herpes can be spread this way). So only avoiding all types of intimate genital contact can prevent STDs. Avoiding all types of intimate genital contact — including anal and oral sex — is complete abstinence. Only complete and consistent abstinence can totally prevent pregnancy and protect against STDs. Because a person does not have any type of intimate sexual contact when he or she practices complete abstinence, there is no risk of passing on a sexually transmitted infection.

Q: What does consistent abstinence mean?
A: This means that someone practices abstinence all the time. Having sex even once means that the person risks getting an infection.

Q: Does abstinence prevent AIDS and hepatitis B infections?
A: One can still contract AIDS and hepatitis B infections that come from nonsexual activities like using contaminated needles for doing drugs, tattooing, or taking steroids.

(www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/contraception/abstinence.html)